Our KH was very cliquey. Us singles Mums never expected to be invited anywhere by the higher echelons of the congregation.
About once a month I used to hold a Friday get together to watch a video and obviously children were welcome and it was suitable for them.
I got counselled because no marrieds were ever there and I shouldn't be holding singles only get togethers. The marrieds were welcome too but were always busy, the singles who were never invited anywhere were always free.
Another time there was a party for the children but the kids of the single parents weren't included because they couldn't invite all the children. 38 children in the congregation but the only 4 not invited were from single mums. They had room for 34 but not 38!
Once there was a barbeque. 120 in the congregation but only space for 100. Yeah right!